Does your partner go through extreme highs and lows, as if he or she were two different people?
Does your partner expect you to follow his or her orders and advice?
Has you partner ever withheld money from you when you needed it?
Do you have free access to your family bank accounts and other assets?
In general, do you feel that your partner treats you with respect and care?
Has your partner ever cheated on you?
Does your partner frequently criticize you or your children?
Does your partner act jealous or accuse you unjustly of flirting with others or having affairs?
Does your partner abuse drugs or alcohol? If so, what happens when they are under the influence?
Does your partner make it hard for you to find a job, go to school, or see your friends or family?
Does your partner have strong traditional views about how a man and a woman should be and act?
Do you spend a lot of time trying to prevent bad moods in your partner?
Have you lost confidence in your abilities, become depressed, or feel trapped and powerless?
Does your partner do things that embarrass or humiliate you in public?
Does your partner tend to make you feel guilty for doing things you want to do?
Does your partner listen to you or do they often interrupt what you are saying?
Do you think your partner sometimes twists your words or uses what you say against you?
Has your partner ever threatened to commit suicide or do other things to hurt themselves?
Does your partner tend to make light of any abusive behaviors or shift responsibility for it to you?